The most recent episode of my new podcast Graying Rainbows: Coming Out LGBT+ Later in Life is a solo episode in which I discuss the book Lesbian Epiphanies: Women Coming Out in Later Life by the late Karol L. Jensen. We explore the question of why so many women do not discover their attraction to other women until after marriage. Jensen's book was published 20 years ago, but many of the cultural factors she identified remain powerful in women's lives.